Please note: This is a companion version & not the original book. Sample Book Insights: #1 The first question we must ask is what's alive in us. We must know what's alive in each other if we want to live in peace and harmony, and if we want to contribute to each other's well-being. #2 Nonviolent Communication focuses on the two questions that are the basis of it: what's alive in us and what can we do to make life more wonderful. It's difficult because we've been taught to think and communicate in a different way.