The author writes about a family trauma, when her little brother, 3 years old, died. She is 5 years old and developed an anorexia after this tragical situation. She explains strategies for her and she can as an adult see pattern she developed. She has had clients in her own psychologist office with the same problem. She also writing about the guilt she got for her little brother´s death. She is giving advise to people with anorexia.