It started as straight-up, How to Cheat for Dummies guide. However, it didn't take long for me to realize that I needed to personalize my message and incorporate my own story to support my rules for achieving undetected infidelity.

This is a story of how I chose to cope with a monotonous, passionless marriage, and eventually found a real relationship based on that elusive thing called, "true love". Those emotionally conflicted years, inspired my 16 Cheater Commandments that frame an adult life, filled with insane, and often absurd memories. They serve as practical tenets for my fellow travelers who have wandered into the Fire Swamp. My story will also prove useful for those who are out to catch a suspected cheater within in their own lives and gain an unfiltered peek behind the dark curtain.

I sincerely believe there are millions of men (and women), who inhabit a parallel universe. My saga will offer comfort and validation to anyone living a similar existence and feels they are alone within their own clandestine world. I assure you that you're not.