"Why can't a woman be more like a man?"

—Professor Henry Higgins, My Fair Lady

Men and women think, talk, and act differently – which causes problems for writers who are trying to create characters of the opposite sex.

When we understand the difference between behaviors and attitudes that are seen as "masculine" or "feminine," we can use those behaviors and patterns to create characters who are plausible and unique, but not stereotypical.

Each person displays unique qualities, influenced by upbringing, family of origin, ethnicity, education, profession, and experience. These behaviors are so ingrained in us that the characters we create often act, think, and talk just as we do – whether or not that's convincing for the character.

Writing Between the Sexes will help you to identify your own gender-specific behaviors, notice those of the opposite sex as well as of other people who are different from you, and use your observations to make your characters realistic and believable.

Leigh Michaels is the award-winning author of more than 100 books, including historical romance, contemporary romance, and books about writing. Her books have been published in 27 languages and 120 countries, with more than 35 million copies in print.