She is for Jordon and he is for her. She just needs a way to convince him.

Does she love Jordon? Yes, but Sarinnea is not desperate to take a mate nor stupid enough to keep desiring a reluctant one. All Siren females think far more of themselves than that, and in case it's missed Jordon's notice, Sarinnea is a Siren matriarch to her core.

She doesn't need a male to make her happy. She doesn't need help managing the business of her Siren house. Her ancestors led the revolt that brought Rylen the peace it now enjoys.

While it's true that she doesn't want to lose Jordon, the best thing for both of them probably would be for her to cut him loose. The process is more painful for her than for him, but it is still a task that she will do... as soon as she can bring herself to let Jordon go.