If you're like most of us, you and your partner have been going along having a regular day and then suddenly, you find yourself in a disagreement. You have no idea how you got there. And, even more problematic, you have no idea how to get out.
Then, you innocently add insult to injury. You each engage in a futile effort to tell each other what the other one said. At this point, your "disagreement" begins to escalate into an argument or, worse, a full-into attack, defense, and counterattack. Round and round it goes, damaging your relationship, until one of you gives up, exhausted and frustrated.
The truth is that you weren't speaking the same language. Yes, you were using the same words, but they didn't mean the same thing. While words might have a generally accepted meaning, each one of you brings your own interpretation to them. Sort of like having a regional accent.
This is a book that will help learn, how, when and where to pinpoint and act on to lead a lasting marriage.