A big part of being a Christian is realizing that you're a sinner, but in that, I believe many of us get lost. We get so caught up in our sin or shame that all we think about ourselves is what we're not, "I'm not pretty enough, I'm not good enough, I'm not brave enough, I'm not smart enough, I'm not important, I'm not loved, I'm not capable." This is the work of the devil. We have to stop tearing ourselves down every time we make a mistake, and we have to start thanking God that He extends His grace to us even in the midst of our sin. We have to go to God and let Him be our rock and find our identity in who He says we are.