Ender was deeply in love with Serpil. He wanted to marry her. First, he strived to graduate from university and became a doctor. He had dreams, hopes, and a great life. Then, he married the girl he loved. He had as much right to live and be happy as anyone else. You could have plans for yourself in this life, but in the end, you lived what the universe planned for you...

"You are like my baby now, Ender, but your eyes still look at me like the man I fell in love with. God has projected the light in your heart into your eyes... Do you know? If I had a chance to predict the future and foresee what I would live through, I would still marry you. Because I lived such beautiful seven years with you that they were worth seventy years. Whenever I look at you, I think of those dreamy years we had together. I've been able to face these challenges thinking about those seven years we've had, Ender."