"Elizabeth Earnshaw's gentle guidance will help any type of couple, whether they are dealing with small day-to-day problems or long-standing conflicts. She takes an accessible approach to couples therapy on the page, making these relationship tools feel easy—and even fun."
—Lori Gottlieb, LMFT, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone
A contemporary, culturally inclusive, and easy-to-digest relationship book for the modern age
Today's generation is changing the rules about committed relationships—and looking to create more meaning within their lives. We are more selective before getting married, with more diverse families and family structures, and we've seen a whopping 18 percent drop in divorce rates. In this new environment, what couples need more than ever are effective, flexible tools to communicate, navigate hard times, and create deeper connections with their partners.
Elizabeth Earnshaw is here to help. The renowned Gottman therapist, founder of A Better Life Therapy, and influential Instagram therapist behind @lizlistens has helped to transform countless relationships. With I Want This to Work, she presents for today's generation the most effective and proven steps for relationship success.
"We're in a cultural moment," she says, "where people are hungry to absorb the principles for healthy relationships. This book answers that call."
Here, couples will learn how to work with the three challenges they must tackle to repair and strengthen their relationships: conflict, healing, and connection. They'll learn fundamental principles including: