When a parents relationship is coming to an end or they are entering into a new relationship, many situations can and do arise. This handbook provides guidance to enable parents to firstly, recognise these common situations and secondly, how they could manage them. Separation and 'blending' into a new family is hard enough, so hopefully with this compact and to the point handbook, it can help all parents navigate easily what can be and feel like a minefield. Fundamentally, I would like my handbook to be an invisible hand that reaches out to these parents and let them know, they are not alone.