We need to allow the Holy Spirit to have free reign in our lives. We receive freedom as we submit to God. Concentrating on our problems, trying to overcome them in our own strength, never works.
If we surrender our will to God, then deliverance can come. It's not weak to surrender to God, it's wise. If we are surrendered we will obey God ‒ even if it doesn't make sense!
Surrender brings victory! As we let go of our lives, and allow God to take the central place, and yield to Him, as we obey Him and do what He says, we shall be overcomers.