Many Christian wives function only in the office of a wife after they have gotten married to their husband. They prepare breakfast, attend to the kids, do some home chores, go to the grocery stores, go to work, come home, cook and REPEAT. They are no longer exciting and fun filled. They are no longer the woman whom their husband met and married some years ago. They have become unfashionable, overweight, saggy on some curves and uninteresting. They are just there functioning and playing the role of a wife. This singular way of functioning has crippled and ended so many marriages. The Christian husband took to the streets, looking for something more interesting and fun filled.

We know and understand that a Christian Husband should not have a "girlfriend or a mistress" outside of his marriage. You should be his only love and desire in a woman. You should provide him with all that he needs in a woman. But this is not always the case with some Christian marriages. The man still wants more. He may not say it, but there may be a deep seated longing for something more than "Christianeez" way of life and marriage

This deep seated longing has led so many great Christian husbands astray and many have fallen into the laps of strange women popularly called the "mistress".

The problem with many Christian wives is that they spiritualize everything thing, including sexual intimacies that should be natural between husbands and wives. They blame all their woes on the devil and the spirit of Jezebel that has seduced their husbands.

The "mistress" in the life of any man was able to get the man because she was able to provide for and meet a deficiency in the life of that man. Mistresses understand the power of deficiencies in the life of any man and they know how to deploy all that they have to fill that need. This is what makes mistresses so dangerous to the life and health of any marriage.

Some Christian wives don't understand the effect of any form of deficiency in a man and they go about prayer houses praying for deliverance for their husbands. Prayer has its place, but wisdom is the principal thing.

Rather than fix the blame on "Jezebelic mistresses" for wanting to steal your husband away from you and rather than waiting for it to actually happen before you can do something about it, it is wise to go ahead and learn something from the life of style of a mistress that makes her dangerous to any marriage. Arming yourself with these information's will help you to keep your husband in line and hopefully away from any strange woman, girlfriend or mistress.

We are not in any way condoning the actions and life style of a mistress, but we believe that if Christian women can understand the secret behind their power in breaking up homes and marriages, then they would be better armed to counter their advances and plans towards their husband. The idea is to open Christian women up to corrective measures they can take to keep their husbands and save their marriages.