There's the black, and there's the white in our lives. Black and white represents routine. It represents a definitive answer. It represents predictability. It's what people are most comfortable with. More times than not life is a not lived in the black and white. Most of the time it's a combination of both—the gray. People are uncomfortable with gray. That represents the unknown. It can bring fear. It prevents us from taking that leap thinking they will fall and fail. They don't like it. The gray can be scary. Through trial and error, thirteen bullet points have been created to be able to overcome any doubt. Easy. Simple. Fun. This is a personal guide to be able to live your own life of happiness—in the gray.