Working with teens requires a great deal of patience and    energy.  We attempted to teach and train teens during their formative years.  This is critical to how they would go forth in life with an understanding of who Jesus Christ is and carry life lessons with them as they matriculate both academically and socially.  In Virginia S. Rector's first book, she gives     parents, youth ministry leaders and other youth                    organizations an inside look as to how to build a youth     ministry with a servant's heart and attitude with tools and strategies to make your youth organization thrive and grow by asking the question "How Can I Serve You?"