We Could Have Had A Great Date If It Weren't For You goes beyond typical books for singles by offering men and women a way to alter attitudes and perspectives on dating rather than just presenting a set of "one size fits all" rules. It is unique in accepting the legitimacy of all kinds of single relationships from dating nobody, to dating married people, to long-term committed relationships.

In doing so it offers single people the opportunity to enjoy dating for the first time, respect themselves and others in the dating dance, and learn about the dating plan that is most relevant to them at a particular time. If the desire is to break free of old habits and ideas that have not proven successful, and turn dating into pleasure rather than pain, then this is the one book about dating you need to read.