对于孩子来说，我们应该是父母，而不是家长。家庭教育不只是提高孩子的素质，更是提高父母的素质。“幼稚”是毕竟阶段，也是他们的快乐。身为长辈的我们，狭窄的界定了成功的定义。其实，当总统是成功，当小丑也是成功。对孩子的爱需要理性，需要节制。盲目地爱孩子的父母，是犯罪者，是侵略者。孩子是孩子，不是父母攀比的玩物。儿童更接近于动物。如果一个孩子缺乏快乐的童年，那么他不能得到健康的成长。与学校的“批量培养”相比，家庭更应该是培养“个性”孩子的地方。我们常常以“望子成龙”的名义，剥夺了他们最低限度的快乐。家庭教育需要把孩子当成孩子，也要把孩子当成大人。父母是孩子的第一任老师，也是终身老师。故事是送给孩子最好的礼物。激励就是最好的教育。在教育孩子上，大拇指比一只巴掌都重要。母亲的重大意义之一，就是培养孩子的自信。六个字可以改变孩子的一生，那就是：“我爱你”、“你真棒”。我们的目标是“三自”，培养“自信、自立”的孩子，以让孩子“自由”地成长。（For children, we shall be their father and mother rather than parents. Family education is not only to improve children’s quality but also to improve parents’ quality. “Childish” period is not only an inevitable stage, but also their happiness. As the elder, we narrowly define success. In fact, becoming a president is successful. Becoming a clown is also successful. Love for children requires reason and moderation. The parents who love the children blindly are criminals and aggressors. A child is a child rather than a plaything for his parents. Children are closer to animals. If a child lacks happy childhood, he cannot grow up healthily. Compared with the “mass cultivation” in school, the family shall be the place to cultivate children with “personalities”. We often deprive them of minimal happiness in the name of “hoping our children will have a bright future”. Family education need to only regard children as children, but also regard children as adults. Parents are not only children’s first teachers, but also lifelong teachers. Stories are best gifts for children. Encouragement is the best education. When educating children, thumb is more important than a palm. One of the most important significance of mother is to cultivate children’s self-confidence. Six characters can change the life of a child. They are: “I love you” and “you are great”. Our objective is “three zi”, that is, cultivating children with “self-confidence”, “self-reliance” and let the children grow up with “freedom”.）...