Quite often I hear women complain that they just can't meet the one. They fall for the wrong kind of men (playboys, cheaters, emotionally unavailable, etc). Many have been troubled by the perceived emotional irresponsibility of their partner. Many have experienced heartbreaks.  In most cases we complain about men being the fault of our unhappiness, we position ourselves as victims and give the power away and see the wrong "out there"...