It is not the aim of this book to break up good, loving relationships...It is however the aim of this book to break up bad, abusive relationshipsThe real danger happens when you allow yourself to remain in an abusive relationship. You then become conditioned to the abuses, accepting them as normal, and giving him the means and power to become a fully-fledged spider; turning yourself into a victim, his flyYou begin to accept this nightmare as a normal way of living and loving –which it is not!If you have children, they will in turn think this is how normal adults live and treat each other.Believe me, there are many couple out there living as spider and fly! Some of them have children. (How do you expect them to treat their spouses when they grow up?) -Imagine the endless nightmares.

Why would you want to allow someone to take away all your rights and turn you into his slave, his punch bag, and claim he is doing this out of love? No, this isn't love. Yes, he is evil; a true gift from hell. – GET RID OF HIM. (NO! – DON'T kill him. LEAVE HIM! Yes, leave him. Believe me it works out better for you. – and him, eventually.)

Love? Let's not confuse emotions here. There is no love in hell. If you are in an abusive relationship, you definitely are trapped in a spider's web. There is hell in a spider's web. Not love.This isn't right. This isn't love. Its torture and abuse. Don't do this to yourself. Yes, tell yourself: "I DESERVE BETTER!" and walk away...

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