"Soul mate"—a person with whom one has a feeling of deep or natural affinity. This may involve similarity, love, romance, friendship, comfort, intimacy, sexuality, sexual activity, spirituality, or compatibility and trust. "Lust"—an emotion or feeling of intense desire in the body, often confused with love. Purely a physical attraction and has no lasting effect. Popular radio personality and one of Atlanta's most eligible bachelors, Rodney Coffee finds it difficult distinguishing between the two.