Every young and old in this world want to win heart of others. Majority of the people want to win heart of the opposite sex baring a minority of the people who are more interested in same sex. A number books are already available in the public domain where thousands of ways and means were written to win hearts of your love ones. But I want to share here one estimate where it is said 80 % of the married people heave a sigh whenever they see an apparently happy couple holding each other's hand in public place. So I like to go along with the majority of the married males who fail to go with their wives hand in hand in public! This is very much alarmingly high in India because of the fact that the most of the couples carry on their togetherness because of family pressure and social compulsions rather than love between them. Further, long and tedious divorcing process may be one reason for which the couple try to continue their married life through adjustments. Divorcing process for most of communities, ladies have upper hand compared to their counter parts. However, for a particular community, it is other way around! But my book will not encourage any divorcing process of married couple of any communities; rather it will discuss how a person can scuttle his opportunity to win a girl's heart by his own deeds.