宽心做人、舍得做事是一种境界，以一颗宽容之心来面对人事的纷纷扰扰，不计付出，舍己为人，更能体现出一个人胸怀的宽广；舍得是一种智慧，小舍小得，大舍大得，体现出明朗大气的做事风格；舍得是一种心态，无争无求，低调淡泊，体现出坦荡洒脱的人生追求。但舍得做事的前提是宽心做人，如果不能宽心做人，心胸就无法放开，当然也就无法坦然地面对人生的得和失。我们在平时生活中要做到懂得取舍，首先是要做到宽心，只有宽心才能舍得。 ( Being Generous and willing to sacrifice themselves to finish the task is a kind of realm which could treat various affairs with kindness, never be concerned for personal efforts and ready to sacrifice their own interest for the sake of others to reflect the generosity; Sacrifice is a kind of wisdom and shows the clear and magnanimous working style that when sacrificing little, you will gain a little and sacrificing much, you will gain much; sacrifice is a kind of attitude that pursuing for nothing and never seeking frame and wealth and shows the open-minded and unrestrained life pursuit. However, the presupposition of sacrifice is to be generous, otherwise, your mind would not be opened and you also could not treat with the gain and loss in your life calmly. Only if being generous firstly would we know how to accept or reject in our daily life. )