古语有云：世事洞明皆学问，人情练达即文章。为人处世之道，从本质上而言就是要求我们在竞争中扬长避短，避免或减少冲突与对抗，做到互相理解，互相尊重，互相宽容。关于这方面，书中选取的处世技巧无疑也是指引现代人为人处事的圭臬和指南。本书力戒空洞的说教和连篇累牍的理论阐述，相信每一位读者在轻松阅读的同时，都能获得有益的启迪和借鉴。(As the old saying goes, "A grasp of mundane affairs is genuine knowledge and an understanding of worldly wisdom is true learning."  The ways of conducting ourselves in society, in essence, tell us to make best use of the advantages and bypass the disadvantages in the competition, avoid or reduce the conflict and confrontation and achieve mutual understanding, mutual respect and mutual tolerance. For this aspect, the selected skills for conducting ourselves in society in the book are also certainly the standards and guides for guiding modern people to conduct them in society. This book strictly avoids empty words and lengthy and tedious theoretical elaboration, so we believe that every reader can get useful enlightenments and references while reading this book easily.)