独立，从词语解释上讲，是指单独的站立或者指关系上不依附、不隶属，依靠自己的力量去做某事。同时它也指一种思想表现，能够独立思考、独立抉择，不倚仗长辈和别人。本书正是写给在各种关爱下成长起来的你我他，我们曾经依赖性很强，但内心渴望独立和成长，毕竟别人帮得了一时，帮不了一世，很多事情还得靠自己去解决和处理。信仰、理想、行动、习惯、挫折，这些涉及人生的方方面面，我们都曾面对，也正在经历。这些方面影响着我们的成长和发展，我们只有勇于承担自己的责任，才能成为真正独立的人。In terms of word explanation, "Du Li" in Chinese means "stand alone" or "someone doesn't depend on or belong to anyone in relationship and someone does something on his own". At the same time, it also refers to a kind of ideological manifestation and someone who is able to think independently and make choices independently without relying on elders and others. This book is for everyone who grows up with all kinds of love. We once relied on others, but we have inner desire for independence and growth. Anyway, no one can always help us. We need to solve and handle many things by ourselves. We have faced and are experiencing belief, ideals, actions, habits, setbacks and other aspects related to life. These aspects affect our growth and development. Only when we have the courage to take responsibility for our own actions can we really be truly independent persons.