At last! The secret is out about romantic relationships. Emotional Learning is what we know but lack words to express. Early learning, as an infant or child, reveals 'how we are wired' for intimacy. This book gives practical tips for discovering the script of your unique Emotional Learning, the way it impacts everything important to you and how it might be changed through memory reconsolidation – an important discovery from the neurosciences. Insights from Schema Therapy and Coherence Therapy are conveyed with helpful clinical examples and clear therapeutic principles. It may surprise you but this book delivers more than it promises.