这是一本女性励志读物。本书以范冰冰的大女人宣言——"我就是豪门"开篇，阐述了女性要为人上人所必须具备的心态、思路和行动法则。"豪门"是一种象征，象征一种精致、高调、奢华的生活方式。比起"我要嫁豪门"，"我就是豪门"更励志，更有冲击力。主语同样是"我"，传达的意思却不一样：前者是依附，后者是主导；前者会委屈，后者更霸气。怎样选择，全凭你的智慧。总之一句话，女人生来就应该享受精彩的人生，至于怎样拥有，请看下面的豪门法则：如果你够强，那就希望你能自己奋斗成豪门；如果你自己奋斗不成豪门，那就希望你能嫁入豪门；如果你没有机会嫁入豪门，那就希望你身上具备豪门欣赏的素质。（This is a self-help book for women. This book starts with Fan Bingbing's declaration of the big woman: "I am the rich for myself", and describes a woman's mentality, ideas and action rules she must have to be a man of men. "Rich and powerful family" is a symbolic to represent a delicate, high-profile, extravagant lifestyle. Compared with "I want to marry with the rich", "I am the rich for myself" is more motivational and impulsive. Also both of the subjects are "I", they deliver the different meaning: the former is attachment, the latter is domination; the former will be wronged, but the latter is more domineering. It based on your wisdom to choose. In a word, women are born to enjoy wonderful life. As for how to have wonderful life, please see the following rules of a rich and powerful family: if you are strong enough, then hope yourself to struggle into a rich and powerful woman; if you can't, then hope to marry with someone who is rich and powerful; if you don't have the chance, the hope to have some qualities appreciated by rich and powerful men.）