心理学也是日常生活中最普遍的学问，它在生活中无处不见。同样心理学也适用于我们的婚姻生活。有许多专家对一些女性的分析证明，婚姻和生活的幸福指数在很大程度上取决于心理因素，取决于是否拥有一个健康的心理。一位伟人曾经说过："要么你去驾驭生活，要么就让生活驾驭你。你的心态决定，谁是坐骑，谁是骑士。"健康的心理能吸引成功、快乐和幸福的婚姻；不健康的心理则是心灵的垃圾，不仅排斥成功、快乐，甚至会影响到你的日常生活，带走你生命中所有美好的东西。如果你能多懂一点儿心理学，那么，在你处于迷惑、愤怒、悲伤、失望等一切负面情绪状态中的时候，你就能更好地寻找到其产生的根源，找到化解的途径。(Psychology is the most common knowledge in daily life, and it is ubiquitous in our lives, and it also applies to our marriage life. Many experts conduct analysis to some women, and evidences that happiness in marriage and life depends largely on the psychological factors, and on a healthy psychology. A great man once said: "Either you to control the life, or let it drive your life. Your psychological state decides you are the horse, or the knight." Healthy psychology can attract success, joy and happiness of marriage; unhealthy psychology is the soul garbage, rejecting success and happiness, even affecting your daily life in a negative way, taking away all the good things in your life. If you can understand a little more psychology, you can better to find the cause and find ways to resolve it at the time you are confused, angry, sad, disappointed, etc., that is, you are in negative emotions.)