I have had a life-long love affair with my wife Phyliss. She is gone now, but during that time some truths became apparent that resulted in our happiness. Some establish a mind set, some generated a set of rules, some led to a useful exercise, a few revealed some cautions, and all generated a life of happiness and joy. It worked for us. Will it work for you? I really don't know. Only you can tell that if you dare try. What do you have to loose? Nothing at all.