Most of us who came of age in the 1960's and 1970's never thought we'd reach the point in our life where our lovemaking would need assistance, but guess what, we are here. Assisted Loving: The Journey through Sexuality and Aging begins with hope and ends with humor. In between it is forty-nine question and answer columns responding to almost every possible issue having to do with aging and sexuality, including the obvious erectile disorders and desire discrepancies, but also those less frequently discussed like dementia, death, and divorce and their impact on sexuality and relationships. Ginger Manley knows her audience from the inside and she writes with clarity, a sense of humor, and absolute professionalism. This is a book all of us can put on our bookshelves next to our tattered copies of The Joy of Sex and Our Bodies Ourselves. We may not be ready for assisted living, but we can all use assistance with our loving at this age.