人生中不如意之事十之八九。其实，活着就是一种心态，若你心无旁鹜，淡看人生苦痛，淡薄名利，心态积极而平衡，有所求而有所不求，有所为而有所不为，做一个真实的自我。如此这般，人生就算失意，也会无所谓得与失，活得坦坦荡荡、真真切切、平平静静、快快乐乐。Life means frustration eight or nine times out of ten. In fact, living is a state of mind. The book attempts to instruct readers to keep a positive and balanced attitude towards life and find their inner-selves by focusing on what is desired and caring little about sufferings and reputations and interests. Only in this way can one lead a magnanimous, real, tranquil, and happy life without worrying about personal gains or losses.