"不生气"是手段、是过程。而人生于世，"要争气"才是最终目的。自古以来，成功者都有大器量，也有大气量。这是因为，超然的地位，使他们对于命运有一种感恩情怀，这表现在做人与处世上他们一定是温和的。而且那些走向成功或已经成功的人，多年的历练，开阔了他们的视野，一些小小不言的波折，他们根本就不会放在心上。During one's life, "not getting angry" is just a means or a process, however, "striving for success" is the ultimate purpose of life. Since ancient times, success belongs to those with a tolerant and generous heart. This is because they keep a detached and grateful attitude towards life. They are usually broad-minded and good-tempered. Those who are to succeed and who have achieved success, with years' experience of ups and downs, are far-sighted and not bothered by petty setbacks.