Love and Hate are two sides of the same coin. If this eternal war of love and hate is causing you heartache, take it easy. You are lucky to be in such a passionate relationship. Your love-hate status only goes to show that you are deeply in love. If your partner also shares the same depth of emotions, you are made for each other.

Get rid of your insecurity. Your on-off relationship will stabilize once you understand what you want from it. Do you want to get engaged? Is marriage on the cards? Or do you want to simply explore your relationship a bit further before you make a commitment? Take no hasty steps. Share your concerns with your lover, and make sure that both of you are on the same page.