这是一个朋友和你交心谈心的书，没有丝毫的训斥和说教，有的只是关心和理解。她把你的同龄人的故事讲给你听，帮你分析产生烦恼和困惑的原因，给你提建议如何解决碰到的问题。(Like a friend opening her or his heart to you and having a heart-to-heart talk with you, and with any rebuke and preach, the book is exactly full of care and understanding. It tells stories of your peers to you, helps you analyze causes of your troubles and puzzles, and advises you on how to solve problems you encounter. )