做人是一门艺术，我们出生的时候都是一张白纸，人生的这张白纸要描绘出怎样的色彩，怎样美丽的图案，全靠我们自己。纵观古今，凡是成大事者，必定要有三种东西，这就是能力、手段和心态。能力是一个人可以随身携带的王牌，并且永远不会贬值。对于每个人，他做事的能力决定着他所能达到的高度。现代的社会没有能力的人很难生存下去，学习能力是一切能力的基础，不能自我更新注定会被社会淘汰。在与人交往的时候，我们还要会建立和谐的人际关系，把周围的不和谐变得和谐。（Conducting oneself is an art. We are a piece of blank paper when we are born. What color and what beautiful pictures can be drawn in such a life paper depend on us completely. Through ancient and modern times, people who achieve great success enjoy three qualities: abilities, means and mentalities. Ability is a trump card that people can bring with themselves and it can never depreciate. To everyone, the ability to do things determines the height he/she is able to reach. In modern society, it is hard for a person without ability to survive. Learning ability is the basic ability of all abilities. A person with failure to self improvement is destined to be estimated. When we conduct social interactions with others, we should establish harmonious interpersonal relations and change the disharmony into the harmony. ）