不管做任何事，记住，先训练一个强大的内心。不依靠任何人给自己幸福，因为任何人的爱对你的人生只是锦上添花，而不是生命之源。这爱来了，这爱存在，你很快乐；这爱没了，这爱断了，你会伤感，但绝不要绝望。心理强大之路就是一条自我救赎之路，除了自己，没有其他人能真正帮助你摆脱心理顽疾、构建强大的心理。（No matter what we do, we should remember that a strong inner heart needs to be trained. Don't rely on any people to bring happiness to you, because love given to you by others is just making something perfect even more perfect but not the source of life. Such love comes and exists, so you feel happy. The love disappears and it is broken, you will feel sad, but you should not feel desperate.The road to become psychologically strong is a self-redemption road. Except for yourself, nobody can help you really get rid of spiritual ills and build up strong mentality. ）