The first time her father made an improper advance on Toni, she was six years old Her father warned her not to tell her mother, or anyone else, because they would blame her and wouldn't love her any more It had to remain 'our secret' When she finally built up the courage to tell her mother what had happened, she was told never to speak of the matter again With no one to turn to, isolated and alone in rural Ireland, the abuse continued unhindered At fourteen Toni fell pregnant by her father, and when her state was discovered she was made to have a late abortion which almost killed her The truth of her childhood could no longer be kept hidden but, just as her father predicted, Toni found herself judged and rejected by her family, teachers and friends