This book has been in print since 1991 and has sold continually in every state of the U.S. and internationally. Includes the author's Bill of Rights for Survivors of Domestic Abuse. The book helps women move beyond being victims to triumphant survivors. Chapters cover what is abuse, the author's story, shame and how it enables abuse, how feelings can be used as guides, how to affirm yourself, how to plan a career, how to set goals, and how to build healthy relationships. The book is written in an easy to understand style and is down to earth and accessible.