The idea of negotiating with a spouse you soon hope will be your "ex" may seem daunting and stressful. Given the emotional load of a divorce, this perception in understandable.

Worldwide, the idea of negotiation and resolution in divorce cases has gained more traction, and is shown by the popularity of mediation in divorce cases already filed in tribunals.

But you don't have to wait until you are ordered to negotiate. It may surprise you to know that not only can you get it done before you start spending money on the legal process of divorce—you can get it done skillfully on your own before you set foot into a lawyer's office or court.

Learn what these principles are in a straightforward manner. Put them to use to resolve your divorce in a more civilized way to navigate sticky situations; and move you along to achieve a better outcome then the alternative warring scenario. These principles will reduce a lot of the stress found in divorce because they provide you a saner way to approach a resolution.