Move from anxious patterns to secure behaviors with research-based tools and methods, compassionate insight, patience, and encouragement.
Whether dating, in a long-term relationship, or recovering from yet another painful breakup, a person with an anxious attachment style can learn the skills to find validation and meet their own emotional needs without pursuing or losing their sense of self. Written by Maria Vogel, a family and marriage therapist who once struggled with push-pull relationships, Finally Secure is a practical guide that offers a clear path for anyone who identifies with an anxious attachment style and wants to feel secure in love.
Inside, readers will find everything they need to start building the emotional security they’ve always craved:

Tangible skills and real-life exercises to shift from reactive to intentional responses in love and conflict with the goal of building self-trust

Step-by-step strategies for navigating dating, long-term relationships, and breakups to cut toxic push-pull cycles

A trauma-informed approach that helps you understand why you feel what you feel—and what to do about it

A self-paced journey to becoming truly securely attached, grounded, and resilient in love