When I'm Harsh, Shame Is Loud

ebook Letting It Speak Without Silencing You

By Mira Calder

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"When I'm Harsh, Shame Is Loud: Letting It Speak Without Silencing You" is not another self-improvement manual or emotional obedience school. It's a gentle, body-aware invitation to meet the parts of you that speak sharply, react fast, or withdraw in silence—because they've been carrying the noise of shame for far too long.

This book offers a grounded, present approach to emotional healing by staying with what arises rather than managing, silencing, or fixing it. With humor, honesty, and a deep respect for your internal world, it explores how harshness is not cruelty, but protection. And shame? Shame just wants to be heard without being banished.

Inside, you'll find:

  • Support for facing inner harshness without collapsing or attacking
  • A trauma-informed approach to triggers, protection, and emotional reactivity
  • Permission to slow down and feel, without needing to fix or justify
  • A compassionate way to stay in your body when shame spikes
  • Practices that build trust with your nervous system, one breath at a time
  • Language that speaks to the sharp inner critic, the frozen child, and the overfunctioning adult—all with care
  • This is not a path for perfectionists. It's for the tender-hearted ones who want to stop abandoning themselves the moment shame rises. You don't need to control the noise inside. You only need to listen deeply enough to hear what it's trying to protect.

    When I'm Harsh, Shame Is Loud