If you're looking to get married and you're not, there's most likely a very good reason: you. Not that you're a bad person – you're certainly not! It's just that you haven't yet become the woman you need to be in order to have the partnership you want. Based on her wildly popular Huffington Post article – one of the site's most-viewed of all time – Why You're Not Married... Yet dishes out straightforward, no-holds-barred practical and proven advice for women hoping to head down the aisle or just have a great relationship. With sisterly insight, razor-sharp wit, and refreshing candor, McMillan points out the things that might be in your blind spot: unhelpful attitudes, behaviors, and beliefs so easy to identify in others, much more difficult to see in yourself. Then she shows you how to adjust them to get the relationship you deserve. And with advice like 'stop acting like a dude' and 'casual sex is like casual heroin use' she'll make you laugh out loud along the way. Why You're Not Married... Yet isn't so much about getting a husband as it is about shifting your perspective on being a wife. Here's a funny, insightful guide to becoming a more loving woman and creating a more loving marriage – even if you're already partnered. It's a book that will change your life and the way you think about relationships, and it may very well lead you down the aisle.