'Why We Keep Losing It' is a collection of poems, which exposes the least known gaps left in the way of loving correctly, brought about by various kinds of wrong parenting by caregivers during our early childhood. It addresses the link between various kinds childhood trauma, about which we may be ignorant, and how they impair the way we love, and how lovable we can be, when we're of age. Moreover, the collection looks into exemplary cases of wrong loving, challenges of loving through childhood trauma as well as offer insights into healing childhood trauma and loving correctly from the perspective of divine love.

A thoughtful guide into remembering our flawless loving, free from fear of abandonment (anxious attachment style), from fear of intimacy (avoidant attachment style), from control (narcissism) and from self-centredness (ego), this book will as well show you why it really shouldn't be the way you've been doing it. It's aimed at helping you identify what makes you keep losing in love and stop recycling it or worsening it.

The author of this collection is a Kenyan poet who writes poetry and poetic prose in the themes of liberalism, spirituality & soul dynamics, reverence to nature, life dynamics & resilience, as well as divine love.