Not Mine to Carry: Breaking Free from the Fixer Mindset

Author: R.L. Lawhon

For the over-givers, the fixers, the ones who carry the weight of everyone else's problems—this book is for you.

For too long, you have placed others' needs above your own, believing that your worth is tied to how much you help, fix, and sacrifice. But the truth is: you are not responsible for carrying burdens that were never yours to bear.

In Not Mine to Carry, Reese Lawhon takes you on a journey of self-discovery, boundary-setting, and personal freedom. Through relatable insights and actionable strategies, this book will help you:

✅ Recognize and break free from the fixer mindset that keeps you trapped in cycles of over-giving and emotional exhaustion.

✅ Set and maintain boundaries without guilt so you can protect your time, energy, and peace.

✅ Let go of the illusion of control and trust that others are capable of managing their own lives.

✅ Reclaim your energy and identity so you can rediscover what truly brings you joy.

✅ Embrace a life of balance where you can care for others without losing yourself in the process.

This is not a book about shutting people out—it's about creating healthy, sustainable relationships where giving and receiving are in harmony. It's about learning to help from a place of strength, not obligation, and prioritizing your own well-being without guilt.

If you're tired of feeling drained, used, or defined by what you do for others, Not Mine to Carry will empower you to step into a life of freedom, fulfillment, and balance.

Your life is yours. It's time to start living it.