"The reality of manners is that it results from beautiful character. Thus, manners is the manifestations of the integrity and strength in one's inward personality into action." People change for 4 different reasons, 1. When they're hurt enough they have to 2. When they see enough they're inspired to 3. When they learn enough they want to 4. And when they receive enough there able to... Allow me to share the lessons that made me.