Like Kateline, most young people invest so much time and money in various kinds of literature, seminars, and counselling session when preparing for marriage. How ever they ignore the owners manual, written and handed down to them by the author of marriage; God. Sadly, the result is that many marriages are not working, many couples find it difficult to live together in peace, and marriages are failing at abysmally high rates, because they don't read or heed the instructions from the marriage manual.