How to Get a Man Without Getting Played

ebook 50 rules in mastering the Art of Smart Dating Avoiding Time Wasters and Securing Genuine Love Without Getting Hurt.

By Vivean D. Xanders

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How to Get the Guy You Really Want and Attract Men Who Are Worth Dating

One of the qualities that men look for most in a woman is self-possession, or more accurately, womanly composure, when it comes to selecting a partner for a passionate, long-term relationship.

When a woman exhibits composure, great men are drawn to her and want her love, respect, and approval beyond all else. These kinds of men are aware that a woman's poise conveys her sense of value. They also understand that a woman can only behave gracefully when she values her own dignity and well-being more than she does the well-being of any guy.

This distinct feminine mindset is what fuels a man's intense, long-lasting desire, the type that makes him want to dedicate his life to a woman and make her his own.

How to Set Standards That Attract a Man and Increase His Desire for You

When a woman lacks composure, she frequently reveals too much about herself to a man—usually when it's most unhelpful. In the early stages of a new relationship, she is too forgiving of males and is prone to lowering her standards in order to maintain a relationship.

These kinds of women unintentionally pursue men because they react angrily, foolishly, and frantically anytime the man they like starts to show signs of disinterest or retreat. A composed woman never rushes or approaches a guy, nor does she make her life simpler for him by rescheduling "just in case" he calls or shows up.

Instead, a poised lady utilizes her feminine charms to entice men to leave her alone or pursue her passionately while maintaining her mystique and sticking to her standards.

How to Be Alluring to Mr. Right and Date Like a High-Value Woman

Being classy and having integrity is simple when things are going your way with a man. But the true test of whether you are a high-value woman or not is how you handle disrespect or indifference without losing your composure.

Men don't always behave in ways that are advantageous to you. While it is true that some guys are jerks, not all men who treat you carelessly fit into this category. Thus, it's essential to behave with poise if you wish to distinguish between the time wasters (the Mr. Wrongs) and the excellent men (the Mr. Rights).

This book was written with women in mind who wish to transform from helpless to enticing to men. It will teach you the attitudes, dating etiquette, "love habits," and seduction techniques of the high-value lady. You'll also learn how to date with greater confidence and authority.

This is what you will discover within:

How to talk to a man who seems interested in you but wants to "slow things down"

The most alluring "good deed" to do on a first date that will CAPTURE a man's attention and make him want to see you again.

The number one secret to winning a guy over when you're first dating. (Most women don't realize this until years of agonizing trial and error.)

How to acquire a guy by steering clear of this HUGE error that most women do in the first few weeks of dating that kills relationships.

The one most alluring feminine attitude that quickly overwhelms a man's feelings and makes him incapable of forgetting you.

How to convince a guy to prioritize you above his backup plan as soon as you start dating.

How to keep the "Queen's Composure" when men start to back off and how to utilize it to your advantage to get the excellent ones to come right back to you.

The "dating rules" that high-value women use to weed out losers and locate Mr. Right...

How to Get a Man Without Getting Played