I imagine: In the end, you look at your life like an X-ray image. The places where the radioactive rays are not absorbed by something substantial appear black. When is it too late to fill the black holes? Life ends unexpectedly early for Sonja and Ronja. The diagnosis of cancer hits them both like a blow and causes them to look back on what they have experienced, what they have achieved and what they have missed. Sonja gives up her career as an architect to keep the family together in her role as a mother. Ronja, on the other hand, goes to extremes for her career as a successful architect. Is it even possible to live your life wrong? An exciting question that every reader can decide for themselves. There are no more gooseberries in winter ...