Okay, you're a lesbian. Now what??? That's the question that newly out Kentucky graduate student Jess Hamlin tries to answer in this heartwarming and hilarious account of her southern days and nights. From making and losing acquaintances, to finding and keeping real friends. Through bars and coffee houses, school and work. Surviving family drama and ex-lover trauma. Dealing with well-intentioned matchmakers and dates from hell. Having crushes and getting crushed. Coping—and sometimes not coping. Falling in lust and, slowly, exquisitely, surrendering to love. In other words, all the stuff that dreams—and real lesbian lives—are made of.