Two weeks after marriage, a life-changing question entered my thoughts. Amazingly, the answers led me to the realization that remnants of past pains and hurts had damaged me both mentally and spiritually. There was no way I could successfully establish a unified stance (what this book defines as us) with my spouse until I understood and addressed the pains I as an individual was facing. With knowledge, understanding, wisdom, and God's Word as a guide, this book will take you on a journey from feelings of unworthiness to the joys of deliverance, trust commitment and love, all major components for a successful life and marriage. For those of you, who find yourself, your fiancé or spouse, or even your friend in these pages; please remember it is never too late for a breakthrough healing. "Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your request be made known unto God" (Philippians 4:6–7 KJV) Enjoy this life-changing experience!